Despite what the media says, and despite the Hollywood obsession with being ridiculously thin, the fact remains that we, as American Men, love our women to have some meat on their bones. Perhaps this is world wide, not just in America…but I’m just one guy, and I haven’t had this conversation with guys overseas.
Now, there are degress of fatness, and every guy has his own tastes (of course)…but the unhealthy obsession with thinness is just out of control.
Women in this country need to learn that there is no good reason to starve yourself to get to be a size zero. Okay perhaps some actress in Hollywood is getting $10 Million for this. If you are an actress who does make that kind of money, and you’re reading this (and I doubt that you are), you are exempt from any of my rants.
Jennifer Love Hewitt was ridiculed by the media for being a size 2. How sickly wrong is that?
Now if a celebrity wants to starve herself, that’s her business…but the example it sets and the message it sends (particularily to our youth) is very unhealthy.
And you know what….you’re husband is going to love you the same amount whether you lose 20 pounds (or whatever you’re obsessing about) just as much. Because a curvy woman is sexy, and a stick figure is not. Marilyn Monroe is (arguably) the sexiest woman in American history……but in today’s culture she would have been shunned for her figure. Which is tragic, because she was gorgeous.
Wow, I intended to be much more encouraging than this post seems to be. Check back for more encouragement! Feel free to ask questions!
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