Did you know that you have a secret weapon?
It can make a man lose train of thought in the blink of an eye.
Cleavage.
You’ve got that. Assuming that you want a man’s attention, use it. That’s what it is there for (I mean really, what else are you going to do with it?)
One thing that I really see to often is when a women has put on a few extra pounds, she gives up. Out come the sweats and colored t-shirts.
Seriously, the giving up, the sweats and the lame t-shirts are a far bigger turn-off to any guy then the 20 pounds that you put on.
If you’ve ever seen that show “What Not To Wear”, (and if you’ve seen it once, you know what happens in every episode)…it’s the same thing everytime. A woman puts on a little weight, does everything wrong to hide it, gives up, quits wearing make up, and looks like the woman she never, ever wanted to be.
Confidence is supremely sexy.
As I guy I see these make over shows on every freaking channel…and they seem to be mentioned on the cover of half the magazines that my wife has around the house.
Here’s a little secret about why the magazines and TV shows recycle this theme……BECAUSE IT WORKS.
Secondly they can keep recycling it because 99% of the viewers/reader don’t take action.
Maybe you’re bummed because you don’t want to buy clothes that are really your size becuase that means admiting that you’re a size 12. OR maybe you’re in the awkard place where you can’t really buy stuff at the regular store, now you have to go to Lane Bryant.
If you are looking to get a guy interested in you…or keep your spouse/significant other still interested in you, do up the hair and make up (we might comment, but we will notice, we SHOULD comment…I’ll talk to the guys about being better about this)…and get a new outfit that FITS, and shows some cleavage.
Walk in like that and with some confidence and you will get the attention that you want.
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